In this parent's manual, I offer 14 vignettes illustrating concerns that preteens often have. Preteens (ages 9-12) are changing physically, emotionally, and cognitively. Will they like how their body is developing? How will they handle the ups and downs of peer relationships? And what about the academic expectations of middle school: will they feel stupid if they have trouble with reading and writing assignments? Parents can play an important role in helping their preteen maintain a positive self-image and not suffer feelings of shame and self-doubt. There are four steps parents can take to help their teen: 1) empathizing, 2) sharing a similar experience, 3) explaining factual information, and 4) collaborating on a plan of action. I show you how to do this in my new parent's manual: "What Preteens Stress About and How You Can Help." I also answer parent's questions on my new blog: helpingpreteens.blogspot.com
